All guys want to be known as good in bed. If you are reading this then you are doing the right thing. This are some of the mistakes that men make and how you can fix these mistakes to make sure she will come back for more.

1. You skip foreplay

Men think about sex more than women realise. When they come home or to their girlfriends place they are ready to get down and dirty and have sex immediately. Women on the other hand do not so you might be ready, but she isn’t ready for you to just want to put it in.

For women sex is mostly mental and they enjoy lots of foreplay and they need this to become around before they actually have sex.

Foreplay can even start hours before you’re through the door. Send her a text about how much you can’t wait to see her or how beautiful she looked this morning. Then when you get home kiss and caress her before you start taking her clothes off. Foreplay isn’t a suggestion; it’s a requirement for most women.

2. You don’t go down on her

Many man do not like to give oral sex.

You want oral sex…right? So you are going to have to give as well as receive. Only 25 – 30% of women orgasm through intercourse and both these women and the ones who do not orgasm through intercourse need and want a lot of clitoral stimulation.

Go down on her if you really want her to enjoy sex with you.

3. You don’t touch her after sex

Men could just roll over and sleep after sex, but women need the closeness after as well. So cuddle her and it will bring you two closer together.

The way you approach your partner after sex is really important to how you approach your relationship in general,” Morse says.The most successful relationships have ties to after-sex cuddling, according to new research out of the University of Toronto—Mississauga. “

4. You’re afraid of doing something wrong, so you don’t try anything new

Stop over analyzing and get out of your head.  Be bold, be willing to try new things instead of being afraid of making mistakes.

Get out of your head and do what feels right. For some new to sex they often try the only two positions they know and never change it up.

Read up on things and be adventurous.

Your partner will find your passionate mistakes much sexier than your flat routine.”

5. You’re basing her pleasure on your performance

The problem: You want her to orgasm in order to satisfy your own ego—because sex is about you feeling satisfied with your own performance. As a result, she feels pressured to have an orgasm, which could lead her to fake it from time to time. This results in sex that is no longer pleasurable for her, and is detrimental to your partnership in general, Morse says.

If you’re too busy thinking about your own performance, you won’t think to ask your partner what she actually wants, and you won’t be able to learn how to actually make her orgasm. “A confident man will ask for direction and will learn what his partner wants,” Morse says.

6. You haven’t asked her what she likes

All women are different. You cannot approach all women the same. It is important to find out what she like or you can hear from the noises she akes if she is enjoying something. Just ask her what works for her.

7. She hasn’t made a sound

Not all women are loud in bed, but if she does not make any sound at all, something is wrong. Even woman who are quiet will start breaking heavily and if she orgasms usually she will make some sort of sound.

If she is quiet during and after sex, tell her what parts of the sex you like and ask her is there was anything she especially liked or want more of or what she would like you to do differently. Communication is key

8. She’s overacting

If you have hardly touched her and she is carrying on like a porn star, then she is acting out more pleasure than she is actually feeling.

80% of women admit to making sex sounds and moans even if they are not going to climax. They do this either to make it nicer for their partner or they feel ashamed to let you know that she is unable to climax.

Let her know you like it when you can feel she is enjoying herself but that you would like to know what specific things fell the best for her.

9. You’re not addressing the obvious

You have some penis problems in the bedroom, but you never address them.

Talk to her about it. It’s already the elephant in the room and she notices that you’re not staying hard for long, experiencing premature ejaculation, or you just can’t ejaculate at all (delayed ejaculation). “Women are not as worried about this issue as you are, that is, until you completely ignore it, or worse, just let it happen and then roll over and fall asleep without giving a second thought to pleasing her,” Let her know that this happens to you sometimes, and it doesn’t mean you’re not attracted to her or you’re unaware there is an issue. Tell her you’re working on it. You can even bring her into the solution: You need to slow down sometimes in the middle of intercourse, you’re working on strengthening your stamina, and you’d love her to be patient with you while you still do everything in your power to please her.

10. She told you she doesn’t orgasm EVERY time, so you don’t pleasure her once you’ve climaxed

You make the assumption that because you came, she came, too. Or you really don’t give much thought to it at all.

The fix: Rule of thumb: she comes first. Make sure that she is always pleased before you are. That way you can still have your happy ending knowing that she had her needs met as well. “Many men assume that just because they were satisfied, and she didn’t say anything afterwards, you had the green light to roll over and go to sleep,If you’re not sure if she had an orgasm, she probably didn’t. And if you’ve never given any thought to her orgasm at all, you’ve got bigger problems.” Just because you asked her once or twice if she was satisfied and she says something like, “No worries, I’m fine,” or she mentioned she doesn’t orgasm every time, that doesn’t mean she wasn’t incredibly turned on by you and still wants an orgasm, even if she didn’t experience it through intercourse.

Make sure that even if you’ve already released, you muster up the strength to please her whether it’s with your fingers, mouth, or a sex toy. She’ll know that her satisfaction is important to you, and will feel more relaxed during intercourse knowing that if she doesn’t climax before you do, she’ll still have fun with you afterwards.

 

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All guys want to be known as good in bed. If you are reading this then you are doing the right thing. This are some of the mistakes that men make and how you can fix these mistakes to make sure she will come back for more. 1. You skip...