Stages in a twin flame relationship
Twin flames don’t just meet up and it all goes perfect from there – there are many stages twin flames go through in their relationships until their relationship has fully matured. A fully matured twin flame relationship really is a sight to behold.
The relationship between two twin flames is all about intensity and explosiveness, there comes a point when it seems like everything has gone down the drain but that in fact is the calm before the storm, once renewed the twin flames then emerge as a fully matured twin flame union.
This reunion is truly a sight to behold, not only for the two who are involved but for the people who are looking at their relationship.
Stage 1: Looking for your flame and understanding the meaning of disappointment
At this point in your relationship you know that he or she is out there and you know there is a connection. You can do nothing but yearn at this point and it may seem like lifetimes of waiting, which it actually can be.
This waiting process is what gives the twin flame relationship the initial burst of flare. However we’re going to focus on the waiting game for now. It’s not the same for everyone however, while some may feel anxiety, others may feel anger, and others may fall into phases of depression.
One emotion we’ve found most common out of the rest is curiosity – the human mind is an inquisitive one by nature and that is what leads to our need to understand what we’re looking for.
This stage is twofold – the grueling wait and as we mentioned before, the preparation. Preparation is vital to the success of a twin flame relationship. Being mentally and emotionally ready for your twin flame is what will be the deciding factor on whether or not the relationship works in this lifetime or not.
The wait however can be disappointing for many – there are recollections of many people saying they haven’t meant their twin flame yet 65 to 70 years in their lives and understandably so, this can be quite disappointing.
Stage 2: You’re oh so close!
It could be one fine morning on your way to the park for a nice jog that you happen to pass by someone who instantly catches not only your eye but your mind. This will definitely feel like more than just a spark, it may feel like a punch to your gut. This doesn’t have to be through catching a real life glimpse of your twin flame however.
They can appear in a vision while your day dreaming but the overall result is going to be the same. Many twin flames also feel the importance of these glimpses and consider them as premonitions that they’re about to meet and engage with their flame at a more physical level.
This phase is a perfect moment to spiritually, mentally and emotionally prepare yourself for what’s about to come. If you know you’ve seen your twin flame there’s no guarantee they’ve had the same experience and at least one of the parties needs to be ready for what’s about to unfold.
However it is also quite possible that your counterpart has noticed you around too, both of you being ready for the awaited moment would be the best case scenario.
Stage 3: Finally there!
You’ve finally met your twin flame – a person you’ve been longing for many lifetimes. The explosion of euphoria can be unsettling if you’re not ready for this. Love will be the word of the day for many days to come.
The longer you stay together the deeper your bond will grow and the more you’ll hesitate from straying far ever again. The intensity of the connection will almost seem like it’s straight out of the movies but rest assured this is completely understandable considering this is something you’ve waited for patiently, painstakingly and through agony.
From this point on changes will start to occur and your previous experiences will make you stronger in dealing with them.
You make feel like you’re always falling, disoriented like an infant or even at a loss of words when you’re around your flame. This attraction will be something completely new to you and it’ll be unlike anything you’ve experienced in past relationships. This is going to be explosion of love you were waiting for and it’ll hit you like a truck!
Stage 4: All is perfect
You’ve met your twin flame you’ve fell in love and now you sit across from them at a dinner table and you just can’t take your eyes off. This is the moment in the relationship from which every Disney princess movie is based off of.
Trials and tribulations leading to the perfect relationship that can’t be tainted or scarred. At this point you will feel as if everything you’ve ever asked for has been given to you – your twin flame will be the last piece of the puzzle to your life and you will feel complete. You may have had a glimpse of this feeling in a past relationship but it probably wasn’t as strong as you would be feeling now!
This is now your paradise and you intend to keep it that way but when has anything been gained without putting in the effort. Once this phase slowly comes to an end new trials will besiege the twin flames and it’ll be a matter of true grit to see if they persevere.
Stage 5: The Crash after the Rush
You’re now past the euphoric stages of your relationship and it is now time to being living as a constructive unit. Remember that we previously mentioned that your twin is going to be the gaps in your personality.
If you’re the brooding person he or she will be the cheerful one. This can and most probably will cause a clash of ideologies – the brooding one may not be able to withstand so much glee at once and vice versa.
I know from personal experience that I can’t deal with a brooding personality myself for too long. This will lead to arguing and fighting and a tug of war to see who gains control. This is the part of the relationship where both parties must learn to grow into each other rather than against each other.
Some twin flames that have passed this stage come out to say that they found this phase to be moment when the relationship fully solidified. Many people later realized that disagreement from their loved ones was not a sign of contempt but one of constructive criticism. In any case insecurities will run wild during this phase and both twin flames must remain strong.
Stage 6: Paradise running away?
At this point it would seem like Nirvana is attainable for you too. One party caves and the other one is grasping at straws. At this point you must remember that twin flames are naturally attracted to one another.
Even though one flame may want to run away, it isn’t because of you – it’s because that twin flame has not yet fully matured. In this game there will be the runner and there will be the chaser. The chaser is definitely more mature as he or she will be looking to make things right. The runner however will find reasons to distance themselves as much as possible.
This is the phase that must be endured by both parties in any way possible to come out as strong as ever. In some cases a partner can leave for very long periods of times only to come back and give it another go (twin flames always come back together). If all is maintained well and the two flames begin to reconcile, their relationship will come out with amazing strength.The reconciliation begins
With both the twin flames ready to discuss their issues in a more open way – egos will break down. Emotional barriers will also begin to break down and a feeling of acceptance will begin to seep in. This is the phase the twin flames will learn the most about each other.
As they continue breaking down barriers they will communicate more effectively. Insecurities will be laid out bare and open to discussion. This process will also make the flames substantially more comfortable with each other.
They’ll learn that their counterpart is the right person for them as they reconcile each difference. This process should be taken slowly and with care. Just because you’ve got to this phase doesn’t mean it’s only moving forward from here.
You can find yourself back in the previous phase if one twin flame feels they are being exploited or if you’re not empathetic enough to them. However get past this stage and you’ll find yourself at the finish line.
Stage 7: A reunion of fire
As the relationship progresses you won’t notice when you finally enter into this final phase. As the insecurities and problems dwindle down day by day you will both begin to understand each other in a unified manner. This is the moment you will start working toward a single goal rather than your own goals.
Purity and oneness starts here – the relationship reaches its pinnacle and the twin flames embark on their enlightened and unified journey.
Together they will also bring hope to everyone around them; they will be a beacon of radiating light. People will see that they have a deeper connection then they have ever experienced and those people will seek out their own twin flames.
The wonderful thing about this phase is that you don’t have to force it down people’s throats – you can tell when two fully mature twin flames are interacting with each other. At the end of the day, it should never be forgotten that it all comes down to you as an individual and how good you are at reading the signs.http://the-conscious-mind.com/stages-in-a-twin-flame-relationship/http://the-conscious-mind.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/twinfl.jpghttp://the-conscious-mind.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/twinfl-150x150.jpgSpiritualityrelationship stages,twin flame