While some women are far more realistic than others, every woman has different qualifications for the man of her dreams. Some women place emphasis on appearance above personality, while other women have the reverse value system. In addition to possessing a great personality, many women also expect their potential boyfriends to have a certain level of education and a certain degree of financial security.

Here are 50 characteristics that my friends and I agree a man should have

1. Be courteous to others—not just me
2. Love to laugh with me
3. Love to cuddle with me
4. Tickle me—physically and emotionally
5. Be willing to defend me
6. Be supportive
7. Be a dreamer
8. Generally be more optimistic than pessimistic, but should also be realistic
9. Develop his own opinions and therefore not always agree with me, but still respect my beliefs
10. Possess some childish and endearing quirk about him
11. Be able to calm me down when I am nervous or comfort me when I am upset
14. Be willing to occasionally embarrass himself for me
15. Be willing to teach, but also to be taught
16. Be willing to admit that he doesn’t know everything and admit when I am right
17. Be a good listener and be interested in what I have to say
18. Allow me my freedom and never prevent me from doing something just because I’m a woman
19. Be more interested in my personality than my looks
20. Be faithful. Distance should not interfere with his loyalty to me.
21. Not view me as his property or an object
22. Not tolerate other men addressing me in a rude manner
23. Tolerate, even like, the pet name I give him
24. Have a life outside of me. I am allowed to be his ‘whole world’ emotionally, but not literally. I want him to love me, not obsess over me.
25. Have body hair; he should not wax or shave excessively, if at all (exception: his face, if he looks cuter without a beard or moustache)
26. Keep his promises to me and to others, especially if they are important ones
27. Not mind how I dress
28. Be comfortable just sitting in silence with me
29. Be altruistic and willing to help those in need
30. Accept me for who I am—my personality, my beliefs, and my looks
31. Possess good hygiene
32. Wants to get married one day
33. Tolerates my family and is cordial with them
34. Has a family that is agreeable with me
35. Not be concerned whether I wear make-up or not and like the way I look with or without it
36. Like animals and believe in treating them humanely
37. Always offer to pay for our dates, unless we have made a previous agreement
38. Make an effort to call me before I call him to coordinate dates
39. Think that my weight is fine (i.e., not too skinny, not too fat), unless I am sick and need medical attention
40. Not be especially vain
41. Be physically fit
42. Must not be afraid to admit that there’s a problem in our relationship
43. Must respect my friends
44. Must not do drugs
45. Must respect my privacy and understand that I want to be alone sometimes.
46. Be kind and considerate
47. Respect my right to hold secrets that don’t affect him
48. Not keep secrets from me, unless they really don’t affect me
49. Be concerned about my happiness
50. Make every effort to be the best boyfriend he can be

What would you want to add to the above list? Post yours in the comments box below.

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While some women are far more realistic than others, every woman has different qualifications for the man of her dreams. Some women place emphasis on appearance above personality, while other women have the reverse value system. In addition to possessing a great personality, many women also expect their potential...