4 Subtle Signs That Your Feelings Of Love For Your Partner Aren’t Real
Chances are if you see these 4 things in your relationship the chances are that the feelings for your partner which you think is love is more than likely not real.
1. You talk but you don’t really communicate.
There is a substantial difference between talking and communicating. When you talk, you are merely throwing words at one another. But when you communicate, you are genuinely making an effort to see things from each other’s eyes. You are trying to forge and strengthen a connection between the two of you. You are looking to gain a better understanding of how your partner thinks and feels.
2. You feel caught in a constant state of irritability whenever you’re together.
It’s a different story when your partner does something occasionally that irritates you. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you aren’t in love anymore. But it’s a separate thing entirely when the irritability becomes a constant facet of your lives together. Being in love shouldn’t irritate you at all.
3. You can’t really envision a future where the both of you are still together in love.
That’s really the whole point of staying together, isn’t it? You should be able to see a future where the both of you are still in love with one another. But if you just can’t bring yourself to envision that kind of future for the both of you, then why are you even still together at this point?
4. You still feel alone and isolated even when you’re together all of the time.
It’s perfectly possible to be in a relationship with someone and still feel all alone. And if that’s the case in your relationship, then you are definitely not in love with your partner. Now it’s true when they say that a relationship isn’t supposed to give you a sense of completion; and that it isn’t supposed to define who you are. However, a loving relationship shouldn’t be making you feel alone either.