32 Signs That Your Ex Is Still In Love With You And Wants You Back
So how can you tell if your ex really is still in love with you? Well, you just have to keep an eye out for these 31 signs:
1. You’re super certain they are stalking you online
If you know that your ex is following you online, the chances are pretty good he’s still into you. Why else would he be showing you that he is watching what you are up to?
2. You’ve noticed lots of calls from a number you don’t recognize
This means your ex wants to listen to your voice but just doesn’t want you to know they are calling you. Perhaps for fear of rejection?
3. They’re talking nasty about your new partner
When an ex is jealous, it means they still love you. And when they aren’t playing nice with the new guy or gal in your life, this signals they are still into you.
4. Your ex turns nasty on you
If an ex is showing anger in any way, shape or form toward you, it means they are still thinking about you. That can be interpreted as they still love you.
5. Your ex rings you without reason
If your ex is ringing you just to chat, for no specific reason, that shouts out they totally miss you. If they want to just talk with you, they miss you. Probably means they love you too.
6. Your friends and family tell you that your ex is talking about you
This is one clever way for your ex to let you know they still love you. When they casually make sure your friends and family know that you are on their mind, this is a clear-cut sign they love you still.
7. Suddenly they confess their responsibility for all the wrongs in your relationship
Chances are they are probably trying to show you they are set to turn over a new leaf. Maybe they want you to see they have changed and put it in your brain they still want to be with you.
8. You accidentally cross paths a little too often
This might just be a sign that you both are still hanging out in the same spots. However, either one of you can change that if you like. Think about this one for a minute. You’ll figure it out.
9. Your ex likes to talk about the good times with you
When they do this, the plan is likely to try and convince you to have a change of heart. You need to think first about what you want and not focus on the fact your ex might still love you.
10. If your ex is lying about having another partner, you better take it into consideration
When an ex is talking about the new excitement in their life, they are signalling to you loud and clear that you are still on their mind, they are trying to show off to you for all the wrong reasons.
11. When you get together, they are crazy touchy-feely
This just shows you they want to still be close to you. A solid sign they are still in love with you.
12. When you are upset, your ex is the first to try and make you feel better
Not sure whether they are trying to take advantage of you in a weak moment or not, but if you see this signal, it means they are still into you. They care about you and perhaps that’s love?
13. Your ex is texting you
If you ex is texting you, it means you are still in their head and that might mean they still love you inside out. Just remember, this may not be for the right reasons. You’ve got to take action to get to the bottom of this one, if you’re going to end up with what you want.
14. They ring you about the special moments
When your ex is calling you just to talk about those special moments in your life, that’s gotta mean something. Give your head a shake please.
15. Love quotes are coming your way
If your ex is opening their heart to you, chances are pretty good they still love you. They just want you to know they are thinking about you and they still want to be with you.
16. You’re getting the drunk text messages
If your ex is drunk texting or calling you, this means they are totally still into you. They are missing you and probably still love you. Take action or don’t with this one.
17. Moving on just isn’t an option
When your ex lets you know they don’t want to move on and aren’t going to move on, this signals to you they are still in love with your company. When your ex just isn’t interested in meeting other people, they are shouting to you loud and clear you are still it.
18. They are asking the tough questions about your current love life
A curious ex is an ex that’s still in love with you. When they show a keen interest in who you are with and what you are up to, this is a not-so-subtle sign they want you back. Something to ponder if that’s what you want too.
19. Your ex has crazy extreme emotions for you
If your ex can only go extreme in the emotions department with you, this also tells you they are still in love with you. One minute they might hate you with a vengeance and the next, they could be swearing their undying love for you. Be careful here please. This is one of the stronger signals that your ex still loves you.
All you have to do is figure out whether or not you want the same.
20. Your ex isn’t willingly giving you all your stuff back
If your ex is hanging onto your personal belongings, this could signal they are still trying to hang onto you. Maybe they think you will change your mind if you see they still want your stuff?
21. They are telling you they really miss your company
This one is a no-brainer. If your ex steps into the light and tells you they miss you, it means without a doubt they are still in love with you. End of story.
22. Your ex is feeling negative emotion
Indifference is the opposite of love, not hate. When your ex is hurt, they are going to say mean things. They are blaming their hurt and emotional mess on you.
Nobody plans on investing their emotions into someone only to have it not work out. But it does happen and you’ve got to deal with it.
What you should do is give your ex a little space when the negative crap is flying. You only control your feelings and actions, not theirs. In time, they will get past this and what you need to understand is, they are doing this because they love and miss you.
23. Competition is in the house
If your ex is trying to make you jealous by making sure you know they are having fun with another, you know they are still into you. They might go overboard with the flirting when you can see, and another trick is to make sure you see them out and about via social media, having fun without you.
When your ex does this, it means they are still thinking about you. Whether they are still in love with you or not is another story.
24. Push-pull in full force
When your ex is freakishly cold one minute and super hot the next, this means you are in their brain and what you do with that is totally up to you. They might push you away and then suddenly want to spend time with you just because.
Truth be told, this is very confusing.
They might suddenly stop replying to your text messages and then suddenly start calling you like there’s no tomorrow.
What you need to do is stay cool and don’t let their craziness get to you. Please don’t reward their cold behaviour by giving them your undivided attention.
25. Tracking you down during the no contract rule
This one is a rock solid signal that your ex still loves you. When they are making contact with you during your “no contact” time, they definitely still love you.
Make sure you don’t pick up the phone or respond to them at all. Prove to yourself and to them that you don’t need them to control you emotionally. Yes, it’s hard but in the end you will be better for it.
When you show them you aren’t a needy person, they are going to realize you are so much more to them. They are already missing you and for certain they still love you.
26. Pay attention as to whether or not your ex seems to always be around you
If your ex seems to always be around you, chances are they are still head over heels for you.
If they happen to always show up wherever you are, just by coincidence of course, they are obviously still thinking about you. If he or she is totally going out of their way to make sure they can converse with you, then you better accept the fact they are still into you.
27. Are they still staying in touch with you on numerous levels?
If your ex is still contacting you on a regular basis via email, phone calls, text message or in person, then you are still in their brain. Pay attention and be wary please. You want this to happen for the right reasons.
28. Pay attention to their reaction when they see you
Does your ex light up when they see you? Are they still trying to sneak glances at you when you are in the same room? If they are still totally looking at you any chance they can get, you can be rest assured they still love you.
29. Figure out whether or not your ex is still in communication with your family
When two people split for good, they make certain they cut as many emotional ties as possible. That said, if your ex is still talking or texting with your family, this means they still have a heart for you.
If they didn’t really care, they would toss your family to the wind.
30. Open your ears to what your friends are saying
Listen to what your friends are saying. If they are constantly talking about how your ex is asking about you and wondering what you are up to, you can translate that into your ex wanting you back.
Again, if they didn’t care about you, they definitely wouldn’t inquire or ask.
31. Is your ex totally pissed after your breakup?
If your ex is carrying their anger towards you long after your split, they definitely still have the hots for you. If they are looking out for you, their actions are screaming out loud that they can’t get you out of their mind.
This means they still love you.
32. He confesses his love for you
And lastly, if he actually tells you that he’s still in love with you, then what other kind of sign could you still possibly need? He’s still madly in love with you and he’s having difficulty letting go of these feelings. Either you just shut him out of your life completely and wait for him to move on or you try your best to help him get over you. The other option could be to take him back if you feel the same way about him.