12 Signs of trust issues that will ruin your relationship
1.You check his/her phone
When you don’t trust your significant other the first thing that comes to your mind is checking their phone. You go through each and every social networking site of they use, check their messages, call logs just to find out a piece of evidence to prove you right.
2.You keep testing them
The right time to test your partner was before entering into a relationship with him/her and not when you’re already with them.
3.You don’t give them personal space
Everyone needs their personal space and it doesn’t matter if you’re in a relationship. Your partner wants to hang out with his/her friends but you don’t like it. And it’s not because you don’t like it, it’s just because you won’t be able to keep an eye on them. Everyone needs some space.
4.You stalk them on social media
You stalk their every activity and interaction on social media; from checking their Facebook account, to scrolling their Instagram pages to checking their every tweet. And the worst part comes when you fight with them just because they liked someone’s status or picture.
5.You become too clingy
You should not upset the healthy balance in a relationship by unrealistic expectations making one partner become overly dependent, clingy, or demanding. If this occurs, it could easily lead to a vicious cycle wherein trust within a relationship degrades.
6.You act in a selfish and demanding manner
If you have doubts about yourself, you may be inclined to blame it on your partner instead of making an effort to resolve them. This is a sign of an insecure individual as they tend to act selfish and blame everything on the other.
7.You tell them little white lies.
Even if you are spending time with a friend, you would tell them that you are at work or you’re at home. It’s fine if you don’t want your partner to know every tiny detail of your life, but lying to them is not right.
8.You stalk his/her exes
You’ve probably unearthed details about them they never meant to tell you.
9.You always think about the worst scenario that can happen
You always have a negative approach towards everything related to your partner. If your partner is late from office, you immediately jump to conclusion that he/she is cheating on you. Or if they by chance missed your call you accuse them of sneaking around.
10.You always bring up their past relationships in an argument
It’s never a good idea to bring up your partner’s past relationship while you are having an argument or discussion, but you anyway do it. You want to see the look on your partner’s face when they take their Ex’s name. You want to know how they feel about their past relationship.
11.You feel jealous if they talk to opposite gender
Sometimes you feel a visceral hatred for them, despite the fact that he/she is not interested in them and they are just friends.
12.You randomly throw tantrums and accuse them of lying.
Why would they lie about something out of the blue? You react that way because you are constantly suspicious of them.